Several people have been asking about a registry. First of all we want to emphasize that we are going non-traditional and as such don't expect any gifts, especially because for many of you, the cost of coming to the wedding will be high. So please don't feel obligated to get anything if you don't feel so moved.
Since we know some of you are thinking, "yeah, whatever" at this point and still want some hints, as a convenience we will try and open some registries.
As of now we have one at target.com and are thinking of refurnishing at ikea.com once we are married (ikea has no registry, but gift cards).